Thursday, November 29, 2007

The Golden Goddess Athena .... Our Annie .. Our Sweet Girl


Our beloved Golden daughter, Annie, (The Golden Goddess Athena aka… Bellie, Annie Belle, Stinky, Little Girl, Baby Puppy, Annie Bananie) passed over the Rainbow Bridge on Friday, November 23, 2007 after a sudden illness that struck her on Thanksgiving morning at her residence in New Milford, Connecticut. She was a native of New Hampshire being born on May 19, 1996. Annie was the canine daughter of “Promise Me Magic” an International Grand Champion. She shared his love of tomatoes and children. Annie was home schooled by Thomas Dwyer. Throughout her life, Annie was often noted to be a particular well behaved and enjoyable dog to be around. We both were grateful how many homes she was always welcomed in regularly, no matter how muddy her paws or how much she shed of her beautiful strawberry blonde mane.

Annie was well traveled living in four states (New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Georgia and Connecticut) in her 11 ½ years and visiting over 15 states. Yes, she left her “mark” in everyone! She was blessed with many canine friends. Annie would want to thank them for their sharing of their toys, human parents and water bowls. Some of them include Kaleb, Ruger, Winston, Sidney, Maverick, Tucker and Bosco.

Among Annie’s favorite activities, beyond her position as receptionist and security guard at her Mzinga (formerly Shared Insights), were chasing tennis balls, swimming in especially the ocean, having her belly rubbed, sniffing the air on her mound, cheering on a bicycle races and going anywhere in the car.

Annie is survived by her father and mother Jim and Pauline Brannigan, her canine Brittany brother, Seamus, and feline sister HRH the Duchess of Brannydoon. She is also survived by her maternal and paternal grandparents and many uncles, aunties, and cousins that all loved and miss her dearly.

She will never depart from our hearts even though hers loved so much it burst from providing a life time of joy. Services have not yet been planned. Donations in her memory can be made to the Animal Charity of your choice or Adopt a Golden Atlanta Rescue Organization.
http://www.adoptagoldenatlanta.com/

Funeral Blues

W H Auden ... modified for Annie


Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,

Prevent Seamus from barking with a juicy bone,

Silence the pianos and with muffled drum

Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.


Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead

Scribbling on the sky the message She Is Dead,

Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,

Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.


She was my North, my South, my East and West,

My working week and my Sunday rest,

My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;

I thought that love would last for ever; I was wrong.


The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;

Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;

Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood,

For nothing now can ever come to any good.

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Ho-Ho-Ho

It is a greeting said by residents of the North Pole and Santa's village. It isn't a request for a professional menage a trois. When are people going to get over themselves? We limit what is socially acceptable EVERY MOMENT!

I was listening to the radio on the drive up to the Hive this morning. One radio morning jock was chastising the other for referring to a Mexican as a Mexican. The other guy said but what do I call a person from MEXICO!

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Christmas thoughts....

With business about to take off with the relaunching of my company scheduled for later this month, my thoughts and plans have turned to starting to actively plan for Christmas early this year. I have been working on things that can be done early to reduce the stress that December always brings.


Many of you are aware I am an avid internet shopper and review reader of everything! The search for an item yesterday brought me to a discussion board that had a huge number of postings for the topic. "I hate Christmas". Everyone knows the way to get people to at least lurk on a discussion forum is to make the title a bit controversional.

The original poster wasn't a non Christian religion hating person. They (I believe it was a woman) were upset that the value and thought that they had put into a gifts was regularly returned by a $4.99 discount item that reflected none of her interests.

The discussion went wild about how the poster didn't have the true meaning of Christmas and that "she" should find better friends or things to do with her money. Find Christ... etc.

It dawned on me that I don't think it was the fact that she didn't "get" good gifts. It was that the love that was put into selecting the absolute right gift and wrapping carefully wasn't returned. Simply, her circle of gift receipants didn't love her back the way she could understand and value affection.

I think this has happened to everyone. I know it happens to me in reverse. There are people that it is very tough to buy for in everyone's family. You want to get them something that will delight them. That it will be the best present of the day. It is wrapped with care and love. What happens when you can't find that item? What happens when a budget (time or money) doesn't allow for that to occur? What happens when you receive something that is the thing the giver loves but not you? I think the end result is that most people know the abilities of their circle of family and friends. Deep inside.... you are aware of the financial, time and shopping savvyness of your community. So... here are a couple of great ideas that were posted on the discussion:

1) Accept the short comings and adjust your spending to a nice present but is in line with what you have received in the past. There are lots of things you can still get for under $20.

  • Gift Cards to Starbucks/Dunkin Donuts
  • Books or Book Store gift cards
  • A bottle of wine or Gourmet Coffee or Tea
  • Gourmet Chocolate
  • A Christmas decoration (although this got blasted if the gift is given ON Christmas)
  • Homemade items including food (consider your audience's diet - candy for the diabetic that isn't sugar free - WRONG. Omaha steaks for the Vegan - NOT GOOD)
  • Magazine Subscription
  • Kitchen Gadgets
2) Different Alternatives:

  • Giving to Charity
  • No Gift policy - announce it early
  • Yankee or Dirty Santa Swaps with limits
  • Pulling names with set limits
  • Do a Christmas list (remember to put items from the cheap side of the aisle on it) - be specific if you are a picky person

3) Find the Christmas spirit in other ways

  • Attend Holiday concerts
  • Buy toys for under privileged kids
  • Spend time visiting a nursing home or hospital
  • Go shopping with friends and make it a social occasion
  • Drive around with friends to see the lights with carols in the car
  • Host a holiday party with a theme (cookie swap, wine tasting, decoration swap or tree decorating)

I love Christmas 90% of the time. I am lucky to have very giving family members and friends. My husband and I love the shopping for the right gifts ...especially for the kids in the family. I love the smell of the tree. Mostly, I adore getting together with people I care about and sharing time with them. Here is to a wonderful Holiday season!

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

Weekend Fun


Friday night was a gathering of the younger section of the clan at Brannydoon... We had all of the Regan's in the NY/CT area to the house for apps and champagne (and beer). We departed for a fund raiser for the New Milford Hospital's Mammography Fund. I hope everyone had a blast and it was for an excellent cause.
I apologize for everyone having to find the house out in the sticks in the dark. We should have had everyone up this summer in the daylight. The rest of the weekend was a bit lazy with the horrid weather on Saturday. It was a great day to spend watching re runs of movies and napping. The house was already clean. Went out and grabbed an early dinner in town.
On Sunday, we did some yard work... planted bulbs vacuumed up the leaves with lawn mower and watched the Pats squeak by the Colts. I wonder what the score would have been without the gift of all those yards of penalties! We also discovered that Annie had broken a molar. It was disguising! Yesterday she had it removed. Poor thing. It was badly infected. I thought she had an issue with her teeth back in August. However, I am just the mommy not the vet. I think this was causing her pain for the past couple of months. I pick her up from the vet this morning. I hope this is the last of the vet trips for a while.
I am starting to do my Christmas shopping... Here is my request for lists!